It's pretty easy to be balanced when it's just yourself. Sure, life throws curve balls on a regular basis, but when there's only oneself to take care of and impress, life is somewhat predictable. A good therapist will tell you that the real test comes when you have someone else to factor in. How well do we manage life when we have to/want to take care of another and when they have to/want to care for us. May I just say right off the bat, the woman/man thing is a real deal. No matter what guy or girl you're talking about, men and women operate differently and often have very different needs and wants. Not easy, right? At least life's never boring, ha ha. Don't know if there's an actual answer to these challenges. I guess each person has to communicate clearly about what they need and want and hope this goes over well. Communication isn't always easy because we don't want to seem demanding, needy or high-maintenance, especially at the beginning. I guess the caution is waiting too long to speak up because differences can become deal breakers if not tended to. Just sayin' ;)
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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