There is sense of accomplishment and a lot of self-respect in feeling secure and grounded in and of oneself. To feel connected to and fulfilled in relationship with others, but to remain tethered to "self" is surprisingly empowering. This involves taking full responsibility for our own world/emotions/wants/needs (and making requests of others when we would like something), while allowing others to be who they are and to take care of their own needs and wants. Enjoying each other without obligation and expectation is so much nicer than some of the common tactics out there; blaming, sulking, complaining to others, guilting, the cold shoulder, emotional manipulation, dog house etc. Just sayin;)
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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