We can be consumed with what we want and need. We can be even more fixated on avoiding what we don't want. Of course, this is such a thankless task because the up and downs of life are unavoidable. Try as we might, negative experiences and outcomes are a big part of life.... Ugh. Shit really does just happen and it keeps happening as long as we live our lives. What if we were to change our own minds.... In keeping with the Christmas spirit, experts always talk about the importance of giving... not just for the less fortunate, but for us as well.
There are always things we don't want to do. We certainly don't like to be guilted or obligated into doing things because resentment tends to follow the frustration we inevitably experience... but what if we were to consciously choose to make at least one sacrifice... and do for someone else. Give one extra gift to someone who's struggling this year - or if budgets don't allow, give the gift of service to someone who needs our help. This is not an original concept, but offering just one extra act of generosity can be amazingly enlightening and enriching. There's something about setting ourselves aside for a moment and choosing to make a sacrifice, or choosing to give our loyalty to someone who needs a lifeline. Truly, engaging in acts of kindness and service can do more for our self esteem and happiness than receiving the things we think we want and need. Try it! It works;) Hugs.
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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