Everybody talks about cutting people off, but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision - knowing it’s not what you wanted, but it’s what was necessary for your well being.
— Unknown
My savvy coach educated me about complicated grieving. My mother died last year and I had mixed emotions. On the one hand, we were not close, but on the other, we lost the centre piece, or foundation, of our family. And unfortunately, the three of us siblings have fallen out as well. It sucks. Once my mother passed, I realized I didn’t have to put up with certain things anymore, and so I let a few additional relationships fall away as well. I feel quite relieved and at peace, with less friction and drama, but I do miss the good parts of those relationships/people. Just sayin’ Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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