We choose unavailable partners because we associate love with the need to prove ourselves, to caretake, to deny or ignore red flags; the roles we adapted to in childhood continue into adulthood when we have experienced attachment trauma.
— @SitWithSharon
Wow, this explains a lot, and makes me feel a lot better about my failed relationships. Fortunately, I landed on a healing path, which involved significant relationship skills training. I found my perfect partner once I was emotionally sound and capable of being in a healthy relationship. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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