Gain the power…

The moment you accept responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you gain the power to change anything in your life.

— Hal Elrod

When I was first exposed to this philosophy, I was confused. I had a difficult upbringing (and relations didn’t improve all that much into adulthood either) and I felt hard done by in some respects, I suppose. So to “take responsibility” for that seemed off base. What I learned though, is that at some point we need to take full ownership of our lives, as adults, regardless of how we may have been victimized in the past. It’s our life now and we’re free to make our own choices. Most importantly, we can learn and grow, and we can realize even more fulfilment and joy in our adult years. It’s really quite empowering, once you get used to managing your own affairs and emotions. It can be a fresh start even. Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl