Wednesday, April 17, 2024

Already emotionally available…

I’m at a place where I don’t want to have to help “fix” my next partner. It’s draining. I’ve done it. I’ve tried to be that ride or die, but it’s such an energy imbalance. I’m tired. I want someone who is already emotionally available and emotionally expressive. That’s it. 

— Unknown

I came to the same conclusion. I didn’t want to go through another painful break up and I wanted an easier, more compatible dynamic. I also realized I had work to do in taking care of my emotional world. No more sulking, no more going quiet and hiding. I knew I needed to become a better partner in resolving issues and creating a wonderful world together. I went back to therapy and relationship courses, and it worked. I met the love of my life shortly thereafter, and were equal partners in keeping the air clear and maintaining the romance. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl 

 

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