Lack of love...

Someone can love you desperately with their feelings and still not know how to love you correctly with their actions. 

— Unknown

My favourite therapist says we become “comfortable” (or used to or perhaps even programmed) with levels of love and affection based on our upbringing. He says, based on 40 years of individual/family practice and leading a multitude of seminars, that many of us likely received very little nurturing from our families. We learn about what love is not, rather than what love is and how to show it. So unless we evolve and grow, we may be doomed to more of the same. Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO 

Blessings,

Chatgirl