Our responsibility...

Your wound is probably not your fault.

But your healing is your responsibility.

— Unknown

I remember hearing something similar from a life coach I was working with and I found the notion somewhat shocking and unsympathetic actually. I remember feeling sort of abandoned, and by someone I was paying to support and guide me through emotionally tender times. I soon learned about the “victim mentality” however and my life changed overnight. In a nutshell, I learned that at some point we have to become the adult in our lives. We have to pick up where our parents left off and guide ourselves toward healthy and rewarding decisions. Personally, I’ve found checking in with a professional once in a while very helpful and worth every penny spent. Just sayin’ :) Hugs.XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl