Tone of voice sets the mood for what is said…

Tone can refer to both the use of words, and the style of communication:

1. Pitch - High/Low

2. Volume - Loud/Quiet

3. Pace - Fast/Slow 

4. Timbre - Attitude you bring (Quality)

Our style of communication sets the mood. We can also consider our style of internal communication. Are our thoughts loud (nagging), high pitch (anxiety causing), running around and around in our heads (stress provoking)? 

Taking a moment to observe our own tonality can help us become better communicators, and likely enjoy  better engagement with others. 

— paraphrased from “How your tone can change the mood of transformation” by Mel Ross (Scott-Taylor), Transformation Accelerator/Modern Leadership Mentor/Speaker

So, when my was Dad yelling, a lot, his message probability wasn’t always received, Lol. (Sorry, and RIP, Dad. You were actually a phenomenal teacher, anger and all). But seriously though, it makes you think doesn’t it? I’ve never seen “tone” broken down like that. “Pitch” and “timber” stand out for me. Are the words thrown out in anger and blame? Worth pondering for sure. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl