Decision making challenges...

We beat ourselves up for past “mistakes” and “failings.” If you think about it though, we’re often making decisions without the necessary information. We end up having to try things (schooling, career choice, marriage/partnership) before we know how we’re going to feel about it. Specifically, with marriage, we’re committing to an uncertain future. We don’t know how we and our partner will grow (or not grow, Lol) overtime. We also don’t know if our partner will change or end up behaving differently over time. We may even know our deal breakers ahead of time, only to find our partner falling into one of these habits down the road. I think we should cut ourselves some slack for choices made with the best information we had at the time. Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl