Sunday, March 10, 2024

Requirements, not expectations…

I’m at the point in my life where I no longer have expectations, I have requirements.

Respect my time. Match my effort. Keep your word. 

Always be honest. Stay consistent.

Those are my requirements, not expectations.

Requirements. 

— Unknown 

I came to a similar conclusion after my last, humiliating, break up (he cheated with someone from our inner circle. Ouch and yuck). It was my fault too, because in truth I was done the final year of our four years together. I just couldn’t face being single. I wasn’t convinced a better relationship was out there. But in the end, I realized I’d rather be alone than endure near irreconcilable differences. I could have prevented a painful ending for us both. Instead, I basically left the poor guy, but didn’t move out. Totally my bad. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl 

 

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