People can’t give you what they can’t give themselves…

Sometimes people can’t reciprocate because they can’t give you what they can’t give themselves. 

Those who are at war with themselves can’t give you peace.  

Those who betray themselves can’t give you loyalty.

Those who lie to themselves can’t give you honesty.

See them as they are, not who you wish them to be.

— @mindtendencies2

Being completely honest with myself was a game changer. I gave myself permission to like the things I like (movies/binge worthy streamer shows, fitness, swimming in the sun, music, shopping, animals, travelling to warm destinations, hanging with good friends, cooking sometimes), and to not like things I don’t like (hiking, camping, anything in cold weather, negativity, drama, toxicity, beach and sports over museums and musicals). This led to the love of my life and easy, pretty perfect relationship. This also led to a more focused work ethic in my career and life altering financial freedom. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl