When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn’t healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits— anything that kept me small. My judgment called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving.
— Unknown
In a way, I owe my ex’s for my new and improved life. The painful break ups made me realize I’d rather be alone than be in a mismatched relationship. Compromise is one thing, but irreconcilable differences are a back breaker. If I could go back and talk to my younger self, I would tell her to be patient, to spend the necessary time figuring out the must have’s (affection for example) and deal breakers (neat freak vs messy person), and hold out for someone who fits beautifully into your life and lifestyle. Just saying’ ;) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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