Friday, February 20, 2015

Self-sabotage

We want things in life - and so!! .... we stress, we sit in anxiety, we over-think, we over-function, we can't help but attach to certain outcomes... and probably we're fearing failure, rejection, abandonment and all sorts of other things.... what to do, what to do??

Most helping professionals give similar advice....

* Do not attach to outcomes... 'cause sometimes something even better happens instead. Yay! Lol;)
* There are only two choices - Love or Fear!! .... if we go to fear, we're hooped... if we choose love, we can feel better no matter what happens.....
* If we choose to be busy with healthier options, we won't have copious amounts of time to worry and be anxious - we'll be too busy eating well, exercising, doing things we love, hanging out with people we like, accomplishing something cool.... fair point, Lol;)
* Most importantly, we're supposed to remain "open" and "ALLOW" good stuff to come our way... if we spend time worrying and thinking the worst, we're somehow, mysteriously shutting off our "supply" and things will not "flow".... looks like we really need to believe and see things like abundance and love in our lives ... and then they will mysteriously come our way;) ... don't know how, but it supposedly works!!! :) Worth a shot... hell, what have we got to lose, right??

(Ref. Ask and it is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks, A Course in Miracles)

Blessings,

Chatgirl

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