Tolerating turns into resentment…

Tolerating always turns to resentment

At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

— Unknown

I learned about “tolerance” the hard way. I miscalculated in my earlier relationships, thinking certain differences could be overcome. But I learned that there are certain non-negotiables. I finally (it’s never too late!) identified my deal breakers, and found my perfect life partner fairly soon after, actually. I extended this thinking to friends as well, and landed on a smaller, safe and trusted inner circle. Now, drama is just how I like it, at a minimum, Lol. Just sayin’ ;) Hugs and good luck. XO 

Blessings,

Chatgirl