Monday, January 2, 2023

When you’re in a dark place…

When you’re in a dark place.  
You sometimes tend to think you’ve been buried.
Perhaps you’ve been planted.

Bloom.

— Unknown

I remember reading an article about wishes coming true. The author (wish I’d made a note!) proposed we would be put in a position to evolve and then succeed, rather than experience a voila, and wish miraculously appears. I think that’s interesting, and I can relate. I landed in quite a lovely “modern family” with easy relationships, genuine warmth and mutual appreciation, excellent communication/cooperation, and a bunch of fun to boot. Just fantastic for the kids and all concerned. Having said that, there’s still navigating to do and compromises to be made. The holidays dished up a few doozies this year, no question. A weaker relationship may have crumbled (at least temporarily) under the weight of our Xmas. We, on the other hand, took full advantage of the opportunity to clear airs, invite the sharing of everyone’s experience/feelings and group think a few solutions. The result has been a better understanding of one another, sturdier relationships and hard earned, authentic bonds. Great work team! Just sayin’ :) Hugs and wishing you a lovely year ahead. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl 

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