Please don’t ever get tired of being a good person with a good heart... I know, it sucks being taken advantage of and feeling like it’s better to be cold-hearted, but people like you matter and are so important for the world.
— Anonymous
Do we continue our acts of love and generosity, even though some have been unwilling, or unable to reciprocate? My favourite therapist says in our primary relationships it’s all about equal commitment. Both people need to have “ten toes in the circle” or the odds are not great. If one person is less committed, the other person cannot make up the difference. He says under-giving and over-giving are both not love. Just sayin’ :) Hugs, XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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