Saturday, February 15, 2020

People change themselves...

You Cannot Move on Until You Accept This

* You will not receive closure in every situation, but you can create it for yourself.
* Most of what other people do is about them, not you.
* Some things cannot be explained.
* Some people won’t apologize because they can’t.
* You cannot change people, no matter how much you think they need to change. People change themselves.

— @Nedratawwab

What I’ve noticed is that change is hard, even with the desire and with professional help. We’re so entrenched in our defence mechanisms from our upbringing. Adding to that, most of us were probably hurt early in love as well. From the work I’ve done, safety and creating healthy boundaries seems to be at the core. Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl

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