Givers have to learn to set limits because takers don’t have any.
— Unknown
My favourite therapist talks a lot about limits and boundaries. For example, for an intimate, monogamous, committed relationship to have a real chance, both people need to have “ten toes in the circle.” He says if one person has less than ten toes in the circle, that person is not committed and the relationship is at risk. If the other person has too many toes in the circle, this does not indicate healthy love either. Both people have to be equally committed and engaged for the relationship to have a real shot at lasting success. Just sayin’ :). Hugs. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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