Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Comparing ourselves to others :(

Okay, so what is it about human nature, and society in general, that we compare ourselves to others, almost against our own will... and we're so hard on ourselves! We're not good enough for us! ... we haven't achieved all that we should, we're not where we think we should be at this point in life... etc. etc.... enter the mid-life crisis! and it hurts us deeply.... :( What the hell is it all about anyway?...

Well... we're dealt the cards we're dealt aren't we?... we're not all born with money and advantages - and some of us came in really behind the eight ball, didn't we? So! There's only so much we can do with limited resources and a tough environment when we're young, impressionable and needing the protection and love that we never got... SO! It seems that we need to give ourselves some much needed slack and kindness... and yes, we should keep finding the courage and strength to better ourselves and find a better quality of life.. but if we fall down in the meantime... it's ok. We've had some tough times.. and some of that shit really hurts! Let's allow ourselves a moment to grieve... and then take no prisoners, know our worth and our talents - and succeed anyway!!! Let's give 'em hell out there. We can do it ;) Hugs.

Blessings,

Chatgirl

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