Unhealed people don’t listen for understanding, they listen for danger.
They hear rejection inside boundaries.
They hear disrespect inside honesty.
Abandonment inside silence.
You can speak with calmness, patience, and love — and they will still respond to wounds you never created.
Because you’re trying to communicate in the present… while their nervous system is fighting ghosts from the past.
THAT’S WHY HEALING MATTERS.
Not just for peace within yourself.
But so you stop bleeding on people who came to love you.
— Anonymous
This explanation is kind and helpful, and allows me to have greater compassion for the people I’ve struggled with. Just sayin’ ;) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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