Friday, October 14, 2022

A relationship secret weapon …

What is the difference between I love you & I like you

Beautifully answered by Buddha:

When you like a flower, you just pluck it. 
But when you love a flower, you water it daily…!

One who understands this, understands life.

— The Minds Journal

My favourite therapist believes in the importance of “clearing”. This means inviting one another to share feelings/concerns/needs/requests, and then decide on mutually beneficial outcomes. This means forgetting the he-said, she-said and working as a team. I’m so grateful to have learned this. Just the other day, my partner was a little snippier than normal and, fortunately I thought to ask if something was weighing on him. And in fact it was. He was stressed about work and some other things. We chatted back and forth, we both felt immediately better and then we snuggled up. Yay! Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO 

Blessings,

Chatgirl 

 

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