Even the most conflict-averse among us will inevitably end up in a difficult, tense conversation now and again. No matter the topic — politics, ethics, business strategy — we can prepare for this moment by embracing what Harvard’s Francesca Gino refers to as conversational receptiveness. Among other things, this involves actively working to make sure you understand and acknowledge your conversation partner’s point of view, even if you don’t agree with it. Such openness yields dividends, according to Gino’s research, paving a path to agreement and continued discussion.
— Scott Osler, Editor at LinkedIn News
My favourite therapist incorporates a “clearing” education and practice session in his weekend relationship seminars. He says if we’re feeling discomfort with someone in our relationship world, we would do well to address the issue. He says if we can articulate how we’re feeling, the other person will likely respond with curiosity and compassion. Expressing our feelings is also an act of self care or “having our own back.” Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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