One reason people resist change…

One reason people resist change is because they focus on what they have to give up 

instead of what they have to gain.

— Rick Godwin (Pastor, internationally-known teacher, speaker and motivator. Godwin’s passion is to challenge people to pursue their dreams and live life at the highest level possible). 

Uh… yup. Guilty. I lagged in relationships because I was uncertain I’d find a better match. I stayed in jobs for too long because I hate the job search/resume writing/interviewing hell. I stayed in friendships too long because I hate the idea of throwing the baby out with the bathwater. It’s always felt risky, and frankly sad, to give up on big investments. Having said that, I finally recognize my deal breakers for what they are, and there’s no turning back (the controlling boss/company who invades your personal time and energy, people who bring a dissonant vibe, a life partner that, in truth, just doesn’t fit with your temperament and life path. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl