Two sides...

What to do when we're feeling hurt and/or betrayed by a friend or loved one? It stings, that's for sure. We feel disappointed and wronged. Problem is, there are two sides to every story and regardless of how we feel, regardless of whether or not we feel "right," each person is entitled to their own experience, feelings and "truth." Everything else is sort of irrelevant. Problem number two is how do you reconcile, given these two opposing positions. If the betrayal or hurt is bad enough, we can find ourselves not wanting to patch things for fear of a repeat. Throwing in the towel stings too, whether we want to admit it or not. Check and mate potentially. Sucks. Just sayin...

Blessings,

Chatgirl