Ahhhh, drawing boundaries ... so not easy to do at times. When are we being selfish and when are we being healthy and true to ourselves?... because we all know that some things we absolutely need to do out of duty, obligation, reciprocity, loyalty... and sometimes it feels good to give selflessly. However, there are times when we need to put ourselves first. Our mental, emotional and physical health may depend on it... and while we're on the topic of drawing boundaries and saying no - what about telling the truth?? This should be a pretty clear cut discussion, but it isn't. We don't want to hurt people's feelings and sometimes it's just less painful to avoid uncomfortable discussions. We're more than likely afraid of the fall out - the "truth" can hurt and some people cannot handle it and some relationships may not survive the potential conflict... BUT! if we can't be real, maybe that's important information... our valued friends and loved ones should allow us to be true to ourselves... right?;) Hugs.
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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