Ever had to choose yourself over others?... Ever had to knowingly let someone you care about down? Sucks. :( There are simply times to follow an instinct, a feeling, our own guidance that sets us apart - that may end up hurting someone we care about. How do we do that?? There's guilt - and then finding a way to face that person and explain ourselves... speak our truth and honour the need to act on our own behalf. Maybe it's hugely character building? ... and we may even be pleasantly surprised to have our act of self-care received with unexpected kindness and understanding .... and if not - if that person rejects us over it, then maybe that's important information. Our friends and family need to let us be us, right? .... WE need to let us be us! ... right or wrong, good or bad, we have to honour our decisions, even if things go awry... because we don't have the benefit of 20-20 and we can only follow our instincts and best judgments in the moment. Sometimes there are things we just need to do! ... no matter what. So, we better hold on tight cause life is alway gonna be a bumpy ride, Lol;) Hugs.
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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