Endings don’t require drama or toxic behaviours. You can end something because it’s not what you want, it doesn’t fit where you’re going, you’re tired of trying to make it work, your needs have changed, or you can no longer accept what is happening. You don’t have to wait for a major offence to let things go. It’s okay to bow out gracefully. Sometimes peace is more important than giving someone a piece of your mind.
— Nedra Tawwab/Power of Wordz/fb
Endings have been a work in progress for me. I hate being on bad terms with people, and I find it hard to walk away from historical relationships because there’s always good there too. But I’ve finally had to acknowledge deal breaker behaviours for what they are. I figured it out in my love live, and finally chose a perfect partner. But I dragged my heels with some dear old friends. I still find it sad to say goodbye. But I also know my peace and well being can’t take certain things anymore. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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