Explain your anger, don’t express it, & you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments.
— Unknown
Hmmm. Let’s think about this. We can become angry and lash out, be passive-aggressive, throw up the cold shoulder… or explain how we’re feeling and why? My parents (bless them, as I’m sure they did the best they could) displayed the first three responses a LOT, Lol. As expected, unresolved issues persisted. On a happy note, I learned about what I did NOT want and happily choose the explaining option. When my boyfriend and I share our feelings/concerns/needs, we find our relationship grows and deepens. Just sayin’ ;) Hugs. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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