There are some people who always seem angry and continuously look for conflict. Walk away; the battle they are fighting isn’t with you, it is with themselves.
- Unknown
One of my brilliant coaches references “A Course in Miracles” which states that (and I’m paraphrasing) all of our issues/reactions are about us. In other words, rather than blame others for upsetting us, we are supposed to own all of our “stuff” and look for opportunities to heal and become stronger. This is not an easy concept because most of us have been victims in the past and have a right to be angry/hurt. As adults however, we’re pretty much left holding the bag on our past. We can choose to be jaded, or we can empower ourselves and do things differently moving forward. I think this takes time, patience and potentially professional help. Just sayin’ :) Hugs. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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