Therapists say we all experience feelings/fear of rejection, abandonment, and neglect. We're sensitive and it hurts when our feelings are not reciprocated - even if we try to tell ourselves it's all for the best, or it wasn't a match etc. Thing is, truly, no one is in control of who loves who. We can't convince ourselves to love someone, so it's silly to be hurt when someone doesn't fall for us or love us, if you think about it?? Feelings are not logical and they are not in our control. Maybe we can hold onto that notion and be more accepting and carefree the next time we face "rejection". Hugs.
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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