Tuesday, January 21, 2025

You’re not grown up until you stop blaming others…

You’re not grown up until you know how to communicate, apologize, be truthful and accept accountability without blaming someone else. 

— Unknown 

I feel fortunate to have learned this lesson. My spiritual guru was the first person to demand 100% accountability from me. She explained that although I had clearly been victimized as a child, that, as an adult, my issues are mine to deal with, and no one else’s. It was a tough lesson at the time because I guess I felt my upbringing (and ongoing family drama) was unfair, and I still needed to whine and complain, Lol. She went on to explain that when we take full responsibility for our baggage, we empower ourselves to heal, and then change our lives for the better. She was 200% right. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl

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