Happiness depends on your inner self…

10 Signs of Maturity 

• Small talk no longer excites you
• Sleep is better than a Friday night out
• You forgive more often
• You become more open-minded
• You respect differences
• You don’t force love
• You accept heartaches
• You don’t judge easily
• You prefer to be silent over engaging in a nonsense fight
• Your happiness doesn’t depend on people but on your inner self 

— Unknown

Understanding the “inner self” has been a journey for me. I people-pleased my way through childhood and much of my adult life. Being a glass 3/4 full, Lol, I always just wanted people to get along. But after years of intensive therapy, divorce, friendship breakdown, family breakdown, near bankruptcy post-2008 financial crisis, I learned to go inward for strength and endurance. I still sulk. I still get impatient. I still get frustrated. I’m still disappointed when I don’t see a return on my efforts, or when I feel unfairly treated. But ultimately, I know who I am. I know my value and I will always find a way to keep going. I will keep striving for my dream life. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck to you. XO

Blessings,

Chatgirl