When silence becomes a weapon, love becomes a guessing game.
Healthy people talk things through. Unhealthy ones disappear and call it “space.”
No relationship should require you to decode emotional Morse code to feel secure.
— Unknown
I believe most of us could benefit from new and improved relationship skills. Come to think of it, when and where do we even get this sort of training to begin with? Personally, I saw a lot of scary conflict, with no resolution. So I avoided friction like the plague, and became quite fearful of anger. I’m just so glad I ended up on a healing journey, where I then learned how to address my feelings and then invite open and honest conversations. This did not come naturally, but with practice, such healing conversations have become second nature. No one has to be wrong or bad. Instead, both people feel heard and cared about, which is a game changer. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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