You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive-aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they don’t want the accountability of starting it.
— Shannon L. Alder (Inspirational author, therapist and life coach).
I used to be the silent person. I didn’t want war. I just didn’t know how to broach difficult discussions in a highly charged environment. Well, I was afraid to actually. In my family of origin, there was a lot of yelling (And hitting. Sniff, sniff) and breaking of things, but not much in the way of resolution or positive outcome. Fortunately, I landed on a healing journey, which allowed me to resolve old baggage. I also learned the necessary skills to be in healthy relationship. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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