So often, children are punished for being human. They are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad days, disrespectful tones, or bad attitudes. Yet, we adults have them all the time. None of us are perfect. We must stop holding our children to a higher standard of perfection than we can attain ourselves.
— Rebecca Eanes
My parents demanded “proper” behaviour and a respectful tone. We weren’t even allowed to have a sulky look on our face. Actually, I think it’s cruel, forcing a child to hold back the tears. I believe in teaching manners and etiquette, but this stuffing of emotions caused quite a big disconnect from my feelings. My favourite therapist diagnosed me with a “broken compass”, and it took years to right my emotional ship. Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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