The intuition nudges you follow. The friends you confide in. The wounds you heal. The way you treat your body. The moods you nurture. The way you spend your time. The level of optimism you hold. The beliefs you keep. The habits you repeat. The questions you ask. The promises you uphold. The objectives you prioritize. The people you love.
— Unknown
There’s a lot to unpack here. What stands out for me is “The people you love.” I needed to learn to love myself first and foremost. In my younger years, I heavily prioritized a romantic relationship, and unfortunately made costly sacrifices. I first chose a very comforting love to feel safe, but overlooked passion (makes sense given the lack of safety I felt growing up). Then I mistook chemistry and sexual attraction for love (understandable, after the lack of sizzle in my first marriage), and overlooked sufficient compatibility. I finally put it all together after trial, error and much therapy, Lol. Just sayin’ ;) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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