Actually, I just woke up one day and decided I didn’t want to feel like that anymore,
or ever again.
So I changed.
Just like that.
— Unknown
My aha moment came after my last break up (fortunately, 10 years ago now!). I decided I never wanted to go through another break up, ever again. I couldn’t imagine suffering another mismatched pairing, defined by struggle and a lack of synergy. I was willing to do whatever it took to understand my needs, wants, deal breakers and must have’s, so that I could choose the right partner for me and the life I want to live. I did a deep dive, to identify the pitfalls of my past choices, and went back to therapy and relationship school (weekend relationship seminars, led by my favourite therapist). Just sayin’ :) Hugs and good luck. XO
Blessings,
Chatgirl
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